Gaydar Feature of the Month – Ian McKellen

“Almost overnight everything in my life changed for the better — my relationships with people and my whole attitude toward acting changed.”

Ian McKellen, Variety (2023)


Welcome back to Gaydar Feature of the Month! For our October issue, we are featuring Sir Ian McKellen, otherwise known as one of the most powerful mutant in the X-Men universe, Magneto, or the great wizard in the world of Tolkien, Gandalf the White! Twice nominated for the Academy Award as Best Actor in leading role in Gods and Monsters, and Best Actor in supporting role in The Lord of the Rings: Fellowship of the Ring, and a recipient of every major theatrical award in UK and US, Sir McKellen is widely regarded as one of the world’s finest actors. Beyond his acting career, he is equally distinguished for his commitment to LGBTQIA+ advocacy. Let’s dive into his remarkable journey of courageous revelation of his gender identity and contributions to the LGBTQIA+ community.

Revealing His Gender Identity and Sexuality

In 1988, Sir Ian McKellen made a significant and courageous move by publicly acknowledging his homosexuality during a candid radio interview with BBC Radio. This was in protest of then-prime minister Margaret Thatcher’s proposed laws that criminalised the “promotion of homosexuality” by local authorities. Following his public acknowledgment of his sexuality, he discovered a newfound emotional openness in his acting. When Sir McKellen required tears on stage, he could effortlessly summon them with a moment’s notice.

This moment not only marked his personal liberation but also served as an inspiration for individuals around the world struggling with their own identities. His openness about his sexuality challenged societal norms and played a pivotal role in the ongoing fight for LGBTQIA+ visibility and acceptance.

Contributions to the LGBTQIA+ Community

Sir McKellen’s commitment to LGBTQIA+ rights extend beyond his public coming out. In 1989, he co-founded Stonewall UK, a prominent LGBTQIA+ rights organization. He has also represented numerous Pride events across the country, and is a patron for both London and Oxford Pride to showcase his dedication to creating a more inclusive society. His advocacy efforts have transcended national boundaries by addressing issues of homophobia, discrimination, and the fight for marriage equality on the international stage. Sir McKellen’s advocacy has been instrumental in reshaping public perceptions and policy discussions surrounding LGBTQIA+ issues.

No Regrets

Celebrating the 30th anniversary since he came out as gay during an interview with BBC Radio, he Tweeted in 2018, “I’ve never met a gay person who regretted coming out—including myself. Life at last begins to make sense when you are open and honest.”. In another interview with Variety in 2023, McKellen reflected about the aftermath from coming out, he said, “Almost overnight everything in my life changed for the better — my relationships with people and my whole attitude toward acting changed.”


Sir Ian McKellen’s impact extends beyond the realm of entertainment. He is not only an iconic actor but also a fearless advocate for LGBTQIA+ rights, whose unwavering commitment to authenticity and equality has left an indelible mark on society. His story serves as a testament to the power of visibility and the enduring fight for a more inclusive world.

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